If you stand for nothing, you will fall for anything.

Whirl-wind... Here i am just about two weeks into this single parent gig and well, not so bad. Each Sunday the kids n' I figure out what we want to eat for the week and we make it all up on Sunday. This past Sunday we made the following: taco meat sloppy joe grilled chicken ham for sandwiches Friday we are going order out!! So as we get in the groove of things, we seem to be finding our stride. Feed the dog and fish morning n' night. Take the dog for a walk everyday but Tues / Thursday - these are football days. Laundry IF i feel like it :) And travel on the weekends to the country. Now this one has me a little discombobulated. Last weekend we had to go to the country because Lance's dad turned 81 on Saturday. So in true, best DIL fashion I packed up the kids and we headed down to the country. We stopped by Dairy Queen to get a cake for grandpa. So two kids, a dog, luggage and now a cake. We get to Dairy Queen and of course my queen bee - Pyper has to pee. So I ta...

Somewhere between today and last week i found a few things: my smile, my laughter, my spirit. All wrapped up in one happy bundle stashed in a dark corner in the basement of my house. Okay, maybe not that dramatic..... Last week Lance got a call for work out of town, and I swear that he tried everything possible not to go; which really struck a cord with me. I was ready to give him a flying elbow. For real. Listen folks, it was work, it was out of town - which is not ideal; but is better then the current alternative. And he had said he was not going to take the job and quote 'because of football and practice.' I almost feel over. It is pee-wee football folks, hell I wouldn't care if it was college or the NFL - it is not paying the bills or making ends meet. But he was dead serious; and i was too. Get your butt on the road and get to work. Go get your man card back and turn in your Martha Stewart status. Oh yeah and the job was helping to build a Wal -mart, which tot...

Ever tried to walk thru life gracefully? With your head held high and just putting one foot in front of the other - without your feet turned outward like a penguin? Well, for the most part I do, shoulders square, head high and heel-toe, heel-toe. I have started reading an biography on Robin Givens, which is strange i never really gave her any though and well the book was free. Which as usual seems to be some of the best kept secrets. The book talks alot about things I will never understand, being black, father issues, and abuse. However there are a few things that seem to translate - her strong family ties, her belief in god and finding grace. And just because she believed in god does not equate to her feeling like god really believed in her or loved her unconditionally. As things came at me from all sides and I feel like I am swimming in turmoil and transition I am looking for my grace. Trying to maintain it through the laughter and tears. At this point I am so angry with Lance, it is...

I have been absent lately. I have been out of sorts, stressed and in a freaky funk. As I begin to write this I am not sure what to share and what to keep wrapped up in the funk. A few highlights since we last got together......oh my, we got together in May, last. Sorry. In the mean time I turned 35 in June; which was for the most part pretty uneventful. I am not totally rocked by my 30's; just yet. I seem pretty comfortable in my own skin and don't mind the character builders that seem to be showing up daily. Actually I am pretty okay with it all. And now that I think about it, at this stage in my life, there really isn't anything that I 'wish' I would have done by now. I have all in all pretty much accomplished most of my goals, which means that in the near future i need to set new ones. Having a goal or two seems to keep me in gear and part on track. Without them I find myself a bit Topsy-turfy. um.what else has happened that maybe funny or interesting?? u...